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Patience and Buchan

Experienced Family Lawyers

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Our top 5 tips

  • Our top 5 tips to get the most out of meeting with us

    Top tips to get the most out of meeting with us.

  • Come Prepared

    Come Prepared

    Maximise your initial appointment by writing a summary of your background or situation and make a list of your income and outgoings, assets and debts.

  • Talk to a friend

    Talk to a friend

    Confide in a family member or trusted friend about the emotions you are feeling. Your appointment can then be more focussed on the legal advice you need. Don’t be afraid to seek support from a counsellor or personal coach.

  • Ask Questions

    Ask Questions

    Even if your situation is not particularly complex, ask questions. There is no such thing as a silly question. We want you to understand your options.

  • Don’t dwell on your situation

    Don’t dwell on your situation and don't play the blame game!

    In Scotland, there are rarely any extra financial penalties for the person at fault in a relationship breakdown. Being realistic about the outcomes will help to resolve matters more quickly.

  • Give yourself time

    Give yourself time...

    Take your time when making decisions. It is important to have all the information. It can be helpful to keep your responses measured especially if there are children involved. Take time to consider the alternative ways to resolve your dispute.

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